My coaching program is a Christ-centered, compassionate support system for women navigating the devastating effects of infidelity. It provides a safe space to process emotions, regain a sense of identity, and find healing through biblical truth, emotional support, and practical guidance. Unlike therapy, which often focuses on clinical mental health, coaching empowers you to take active steps in your healing journey, aligning your heart with God’s plan for restoration—whether that’s within your marriage or in your personal life moving forward.

Practically, coaching with me is provided in 3 or 6-month support packages. We'll meet online twice a month for 50-minute coaching sessions (via Microsoft Teams or Zoom), and you'll have access to me for support between sessions via the Marco Polo app (voice and video messaging). You'll also have access to the JBB Community meetings (2x/week), private message boards, and resource library for the duration of your coaching.

Both coaching and counseling / therapy play important roles in healing, but they serve different purposes. Therapy is often necessary for diagnosing and treating mental health conditions like PTSD or depression, while coaching is action-oriented, helping you navigate your present circumstances and future decisions. In a Christian coaching approach, we rely on faith-based principles, biblical wisdom, and practical steps to help you heal, rediscover your worth, and move forward with confidence. Coaching is not a replacement for therapy, and can be a powerful complement to it.

If you're feeling lost, stuck, or emotionally overwhelmed but don't have a clinical mental health diagnosis that requires therapy, coaching may be a great fit for you. Coaching is ideal if you’re ready to take action steps toward healing but need guidance, accountability, and support along the way. If your pain feels unbearable or affects your ability to function daily, a therapist might be a better starting point. Many women utilize a combination of both coaching and counseling for the most comprehensive support.

Yes! My coaching is Biblically based and Holy Spirit led. While I respect each woman's personal beliefs, my coaching is from a Christian perspective.

We'll incorporate prayer, God’s word, and listening for His voice because the Lord understands betrayal and His Word provides the ultimate source of comfort, direction, and hope. Whether you’re struggling with forgiveness, trust, triggers, or self-worth, we’ll explore how to tackle these things from both a practical and spiritual perspective.

As a Christian betrayal trauma coach, I help women process their pain in a way that honors both their emotions and God’s truth. Through coaching, we focus on reclaiming your identity in Christ, setting healthy boundaries, overcoming triggers, and developing emotional resilience. You’ll receive practical tools and biblical encouragement to move from heartbreak to hope, trusting that God can bring victory in your life!

Healing is a journey, not a quick fix. The timeline varies for each woman, depending on the depth of the betrayal and your personal history. While there’s no exact timeframe, I've found that you'll be in each of the 4 stages (shown above) for 6-12 weeks. Through coaching, I help you navigate whatever stage you're in with 3 or 6-month support packages. You can work with me as long as you need support because I don't want you to go through it alone.

I am an IBCC Certified Mental Health Coach and Certified Kingdom Coach. My training provides a strong foundation in mental health principles, trauma-informed care, and faith-based coaching strategies. In addition to my certifications, I have successfully navigated infidelity in my own marriage. I understand firsthand the pain, confusion, and deep wounds that betrayal brings—but I also know that healing, restoration, and renewed strength are possible. My journey has given me a deep empathy for the women I coach, and I am passionate about helping women heal, rebuild their identity, and move forward with clarity and confidence.

While I am not a licensed therapist or counselor, my certifications enable me to walk alongside women in their healing journey, integrating faith, proven healing strategies, and personal experience.

No, currently coaching is not covered by insurance because it is not a licensed therapeutic service. Coaching is considered personal development rather than mental health treatment. While I wish this were different, I do offer a variety payment options and packages to make coaching more accessible.

My coaching support packages cost between $240-335/month depending on the length and payment plan you choose.

Right now the community includes:

• Weekly online meetings that provide an opportunity to share your story, how your journey is going that week, and get support to keep you moving forward
• Weekly book group to read and discuss one book per quarter on the topic of healing from sexual betrayal
• A monthly call with an expert in the field, or a woman who has walked the journey, to learn and ask questions
• An online community message board/app, open 24/7.  Great for those who can't make the group meeting, or those who prefer writing over talking.
• A growing library of video resources and practical tools

You can participate in as much, or as little as you feel up to each week.

Right now our Weekly Group Meeting is on Mondays from 12:30-1:30 CST and our Weekly Book Group is on Wednesday evenings from 7-8pm CST.

Monthly Expert Q & As vary from month to month, but are typically during one of the above times.

The length of time you need the support of the community is totally up to you.  This is an investment in your healing and it's available as long or short as you need support. 

With a monthly membership you can cancel anytime and you will lose access to the community at the end of that month. 

Quarterly memberships renew every three months, they are nonrefundable, but you can stop participating at any time.

Yes!  If you are ready to start the healing process and you desire to walk alongside others as we face the betrayal trauma together, then the community is a great place for you.

Absolutely. Whether your husband had an emotional affair, physical affair, an addiction to pornography, or paid prostitutes; if he betrayed your marriage vows then the community is for you.

Yes! This is about pursuing your own healing, in community, regardless of current relationship status!  However, this group is designed for women who were in a marriage relationship when the infidelity occurred.  

There are references to Christianity / God in the community, and some of the books and courses, because Christian faith is an integral part of my own story, and a part of the healing journey for many members.  There are also some books and courses that are not specifically faith based.

All members are invited to share authentically about their own healing journey and what part faith plays along the way.

No. The community is designed to provide a sisterhood of support for your healing journey, and additional resources as you navigate your trauma.  It is not intended to replace counseling, but rather to ensure you are not alone on the journey.

Yes!  No matter how long you've been on your journey, if you desire to walk alongside others as we face the betrayal trauma together then the community is a great place for you.

That's totally up to you. Our weekly meetings provide an opportunity to share your past, but it's also a place to talk about what you're doing to move beyond the pain in the present and future. 

The book group focuses more on information and tools to understand our pain and how to move beyond it. 

It's always up to you how much or how little you participate.  You are never forced to talk, but I do believe talking with others is part of the healing process.  Only you know if this will work for you, but I'd love to have you join us!

I'd love to hear from you and answer any questions you still have. Submit your question below or fill out my contact form HERE.